Thursday, April 8, 2010

Friendship

Sometime I don't understand the TRUE meaning of friendship.
We cry together, we laugh together..
But then what?
Friends can't be ALWAYS there whenever you need just like all the poems say..


But that doesn't mean they don't love you.
They have limits too.
And sometime we are too busy with our problem that we never realize our friends also need us.


So what does friendship means??
I haven't figure out something that can best describe friendship.
When you are really close to your friend, you feel like there is no one that could ever understand you that much.
But then it change so quick. She's not close anymore to you and both of you don't talk pretty often.
She often got distracted and not listening to you anymore. 
Then what do you feel? BETRAYED!
But sometime it's not what she meant to do. 
Maybe she didn't forget you. Maybe she just forgot to remember you.


Have you ever consider it that way?
Your friend need space too. 


Well, it hasn't describe friendship as well.
So here's the story.


It's about my first class in High School
One thing I learned pretty fast is that "you are where you seat"
Your friends are they who seat near you.
And it's true.
I got my besties since then.
LOTs of best friends.
But at some point I felt like they don't like me anymore.
Like I'm not longer accepted there.
Like they don't want me anymore.
But then I realize, that's not true.
Friends are not based on need.
We're there when our friends need us and in my class, I found out that even though sometimes we felt that way. 
That our friends are leaving us, it's really NOT true.
We get along pretty well. And I know it's not FAKE..


In friendship, there are UPs and DOWNs.
But somehow it's like what you do with your family.
You just know they're sorry without they telling you when you feel like they're leaving you.
And somehow it keeps you from feeling lonely.
Friendship isn't always be about listening to each other.
I mean, it's important, but it's not the hole thing is about.
You don't "USE" your friend that way.


And friends now that you love them without you tell them that..

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